One of the more amusing things that I get to do from time to time is try and explain to my non-church going family is that yes you can be a pastor and be married, or yes you can be a pastor without going to seminary. I try and explain to them that being a pastor is not a occupation that you choose it is a calling that God puts on your life.
In trying to explain this calling to others it has forced me to dig deeper into what the calling of a pastor is. I am not going to go into all the qualifications of a pastor if you want to study that more a good resource is Vintage Church by Mark Driscoll. Just a disclaimer the biblical qualifications are more important than anything I can say I fully believe in the qualifications set forth in 1Timothy 3:2-7 and Titus 1.
Here is what I am learning about the call of a pastor that we do not hear about much in our current days. If you can help being a pastor or working in ministry then do it, because if you can help it or choose not to do it then you are not called. Those who are called must be in ministry or they feel like they will die. Charles Spurgeon in his book Counsel for Christian Workers speaks about this at length. Spurgeon in this book states that the language in the bible for being thrust into ministry in the Greek is that same term that we use for a person having a demon cast out of them. He latter states that for men to enter ministry it is going to take a massive thrust from God for them to enter.
If you are called you are thrust into ministry and there is no other option for you. If that is not crazy enough once you are thrust into ministry you must be willing to get over your fear of man and fear God. To proclaim the Gospel boldly is no easy task and it should not be that is why we need more men who are willing to take off their suit jackets, cut off their sleeves and get down in the dirt and do the work that God has called us to.
I will close with this. Spurgeon said it best, and I paraphrase, the job of a pastor is to use his sickle and cut down the sin and call people to repentance. To separate the sin from the man and put it to death. When that is done you bundle the ones who have been cut down and put them together in a Gospel community and the job is not done until they have gone and been placed in the store house (heaven).
This job is not for those who think they might be called it is for men who have been thrust into their position by the mighty hand of God. My prayer for myself and these men is that we will boldly proclaim the name of Jesus for his fame.